The Truth

The Truth

An Uncomfortable Book About Relationships

Book - 2015
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From the author of the blockbuster bestseller The Game A shockingly personal, surprisingly relatable, brutally honest memoir, in which the celebrated dating expert confronts the greatest challenge he has ever faced: monogamy and fidelity. Neil Strauss became famous to millions around the world as the author of The Game, a funny and slyly instructive account of how he transformed himself from a scrawny, insecure nerd into the ultra-confident, ultra-successful pickup artist known as Style. The book jump-started the international seduction community, and made Strauss a household name--revered or notorious--among single men and women alike. But the experience of writing The Game also transformed Strauss into a man who could have what every man wants: the ability to date--and/or have casual sex with--almost every woman he met. The results were heady, to be sure. But they also conditioned him to view the world as a kind of constant parade of women, sex, and opportunity--with intimacy and long-term commitment taking a back seat. That is, until he met the woman who forced him to choose between herself and the parade. The choice was not only difficult, it was wrenching. It forced him deep into his past, to confront not only the moral dimensions of his pickup lifestyle, but also a wrenching mystery in his childhood that shaped the man that he became. It sent him into extremes of behavior that exposed just how conflicted his life had become. And it made him question everything he knew about himself, and about the way men and women live with and without each other. He would never be the same again. Searingly honest, compulsively readable, this new book may have the same effect on you
Publisher: New York : Dey St., an imprint of William Morrow Publishers, 2015
Edition: First edition
Copyright Date: ©2015
ISBN: 9780060898762
Characteristics: 421 pages : illustrations ; 24 cm


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Jul 18, 2016

Hilarious! Kept me enthralled from beginning to end.

Jan 03, 2016

It seemed that Neil Strauss had it all. He became a renowned pick up artist after he wrote The Game. Then he tried a committed monogamous relationship and cheated on what turns out to be his true love. Because of that, he goes to sex addiction rehab. That's the first third of the book. At first he tries to heal himself. Then he goes on a sexual odyssey because he believes their is nothing wrong with him, and he wants to find a way of living that suits his desires to both have sex with a lot of people, and be committed. As they say in the book he wants to have his cake and eat it too. A lot of sexual experimentation follows, and he finds that he is still unhappy. With the help of his friends, Rick Rubin, and his sex therapist Lorraine, he eventually comes around, realizes that he really is damaged and goes through extensive therapy to improve himself. He winds up with his true love at the end, and has seemingly matured into a healthy man with a healthy perspective on life.
I found the struggle he went through to be relatable, in so much as you replace his sex addiction and risky behaviors with your own demons. If you can put yourself in his shoes this book can give you at least an outline and case study on how you can work to improve yourself, attain a healthy mindset and life, and do what a lot of us need to do, which is become an adult and as he puts it in the book: be your own parent.
It's pretty tawdry. Some of these underground sex groups are almost hard to believe, but you know, it's LA.
Look for cameos from Orlando Bloom, Corey Feldman, and Seth Macfarlane. Feldman's cameo is particularly surprising/interesting. I won't spoil it here, but let's just say even though is career is in the toilet, he's still leading a life that most men would kill to experience, at least for a little while.

Dec 27, 2015

I am disappointed with this book. I have to say I gave up on it, and I didn't want to because the writing is good. I just don't really care about Neil's 'mommy' issues which seems to be taking up the crux of the book.

Dec 19, 2015

I've read most books by Neil Strauss. This one is as intense and over-the-top in it's exploration, as his others have been. There are some real nuggets of wisdom. A few startling discoveries about his past. As well as some in-depth introspection that I felt bogged down the pace of the book.
A suitable book for people in monogamous relationships who would like a chance to live vicariously through the adventures of Mr. Strauss. As well as for people who struggle to stay committed and are seeking a self-help book.
All said, I would recommend this book. Not like anything else out on the market.


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